 Happily Ever Afters only happen if we are willing to make it happen. Remember date nights once a week, a passionate kiss daily, holding hands and listening when the other speaks will all create the ambiance for a long life of many happily ever afters.  Let your light within shine thru. Each of us, as women have a Princess within. Live so that special gift you've been given will light up the world and your life!  Troubled waters are best crossed with a sturdy bridge. Relationships also can withstand most storms if there is a firm foundation. When the torrents of an unleashed stream of criticism or harsh words, wash away common sense and the desire to be civil, It is imperative to have your relationship based on something bigger than self. Thus giving a reason to work thru the difficult times with kindness as the bridge to help over troubled waters. Remember the other person may be hurt, tired, frustrated and in their normal way would never mean any criticism. Be patient, generous with love and remember the bridge of kindness.  Signs given are often distorted by inclement weather, poor vision or numerous other obstacles. It is the same as signs given in a relationship. Weather, mood, lack of understanding or even sheer near sightedness may contribute to going in the wrong direction. And that direction might take you so far off course that it seems impossible to go right. Realize, the sun will shine again and melt the imperceptions created from misread signs. Patience, willingness to look beyond self all help in restoring a clearer vision. Wipe away distortions and inclement weather from the signs our loved ones give. It will help us see more clearly what their true needs are and who we are. Thus thru the storms of life we grow closer and more able to assist those loved ones in need. It becomes less about us and more about them. Then thru this veiled life we finally see more clearly. 
A picture says a thousand words... what does this say to you?
 Every home should be a mans (or woman's) castle whether in the huts of Africa or the palaces of Europe. It is often in the most humble circumstances where love and selfless concern is shared most... Perhaps this comes from serving others instead of self. Sadly, the more we have, often, the more we want and the less we share with others. But it doesn't have to be so. Share from your heart, look for good to do today and your life will be happier. Brides Balloon & Bentleys model from Norms online Bridal Photo: JML Photography,  May every young love, wake each day as morning breaks to that dawn which dispels clouds of doubt and anger. Replacing the darkness of self concerns with the light of love for a new day and with the one you care most about. Happy Valentines Day!  Magic happens when we turn on the switch in our mind and let those creative juices flow. Exciting events stimulate that dream mechanism. Events like a wedding truly bring out hidden desires in that dream world. I see it each time a loving couple comes to visit the castle. Every bride glows with that inner light of love. It radiates thru their eyes as they gaze at one another. That inner light is always there, within easy reach of switching it on or off. Life is so much more enjoyable when we choose to flip the switch on and Light up our lives with love.  mas-quer-ade (mas'ke-rad')1. a ball or a party at which masks and fancy costumes are worn. 2. a costume for such a ball or party. 3. a) a disguise or false show b) a living or acting under false pretenses. Another successful year at the ball held at Chateau Charmant. | Author Here's where Bonnie Talks: "Married couples who love each other tell each other a thousand things without talking" Chinese proverb... so what am I thinking? ArchivesMarch 2013 CategoriesAll |
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